Reflection of the Week - 5th March 2024

By Henri Nouwen

Posted in Faith

Jesus is God who suffers with us

God sent Jesus to make free persons of us. He has chosen compassion as the way to freedom. That is a great deal more radical than you might at first imagine. It means that God wanted to liberate us, not by removing suffering from us, but by sharing it with us.

Jesus is God-who-suffers-with-us. Over time, the word sympathising has become a somewhat feeble way of expressing the reality of ‘suffering with’ someone. Nowadays, when someone says: ‘I have sympathy for you,’ it has a rather distant ring about it. The feeling, at least for me, is of someone looking down from above. The word’s original meaning of ‘suffering together with someone’ has been partly lost. That’s why I’ve opted for the word compassion. It’s warmer, more intimate, and closer. It’s taking part in the suffering of the other, being totally a fellow human being in suffering.

Jesus is the revelation of God’s unending, unconditional love for us human beings. Everything that Jesus has done, said, and undergone is meant to show us that the love we most long for is given to us by God, not because we deserved it, but because God is a God of love.


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