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Rev Sarah Williamson
Suicide is an abrasive word. I don’t even like writing it, let alone saying it. In 2009, we lost 1633 men and 499 women to suicide. That’s 2132 people with mums, dads, wives, brothers, sisters and children. In the same year, 1507 people lost their lives in road crashes. I don’t wish to detract from the tragic loss of life on our roads, and the communities whom this affects. But I do wish to point out that, despite the number of people dying by suicide being higher than our road toll, responsible discussion about the issue by the media, and in our own communities, is muted. This is partly what has led the Moderator, Rev Rob Williams, and myself to create an awareness campaign called “Suicide: It’s no secret”. “I want to do something tangible to promote responsible and healthy media and community discussion about suicide so that people can be offered support, grieve - and find hope - together,” says the Moderator, Rev Rob Williams. Our campaign wishes to say that silence and shame is not the answer: we want to help open up the discussion and the normalising of depression and mental ill health so that lives can be saved. Growing up in a rural area, I have been particularly keen to see open discussion about suicide be able to flourish in our rural areas – and even more so, I fundamentally believe discussion is the starter for true change and the actual saving of lives. As a church, we have a central role in many of our communities, especially rural communities. We care for those who are hurting and bury those who die. Many of our ministers can testify to the incredible sadness of walking alongside another precious life lost to intentional self harm. Rev Rob Stoner is one Minister who sees the desperation that can set a course of anxiety, depression and, sadly, suicide. “The rural downturn (drought, and now various circumstances affecting fruit growers beyond our control in the Riverland) has meant for many people whose crops fail, they feel the failure personally,” explains Rob. “This leads its natural course into depression. Suicide prevention begins by recognising the social needs of the farmers, the bad times they are experiencing and how that leads into depression”. Our campaign begins on 28 August at Scots Church, Adelaide, with spokespeople addressing the media, followed by a short Service of Remembrance at in the Church at 12.00pm. If you or someone you know would benefit from this opportunity to grieve, remember and find hope, please join us. A symbolic display of black balloons will be at the church, representing the lives South Australia has lost to suicide in the past year. The following six week period after the launch will see approximately a dozen services held throughout the state in rural areas. Resources will be available to all congregations to run services for their local communities via the website – nosecret.org.au. For more information, contact Rev Sarah Williamson on (08) 8236 4257,
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